AFS

A Host Sister from Italy

12:24
Last semester break, my family is grateful with the opportunity to host an AFS exchange student from Italy in conjunction with The 8th International Friendship and Cultural Camp (IFCC)  that was held in SK Air Merah.

Back in my secondary school, when I was in form 3 and form 4 there were two exchange student from France and Switzerland respectively.I can still remember the girls in my class flocking at the door when the boy from France was walking around the school as the teacher was showing him the places in our school.Then in 2014, a beautiful Swiss girl made us all in awe and I have always waited for her to give a speech during the assembly.She once shared about her hometown, right after I reached home that day, I googled it and it was a countryside with a mesmerising view of a lake - forgive me I don't remember the place.I had this one picture with her and I hope it is still there,in one of the many files of pictures ( I should look up for it soon!).

Most of the exchange students were in my school because they have a host sister or brother that is studying in the same school and I was clueless back then how to become a host family,the procedures and all ( I secretly hope that my parents would opt to become a host family).And now, years later after I had finished school, finally I am being given the chance to have a host sister,alhamdulillah.

If some of you had read AFS Exchange Student Interview Tips , you would know how me and my friend applied for this AFS Exchange Student Programme.Seeing the foreign students flew far away from their hometown across the globe to learn and exchange new culture sparked my interest to join the programme as well.

Back to my main topic, this sweet girl named Manuela from Rome,Italy was assigned to us as a host sister for a really short three days but it was an amazing experience.Believe me, days before as Sofea and I arrived home from our uni we were nervous as how to greet her and "dia makan nasi tak?".Should we prepare vegetarian food for her,will she be comfortable to sleep in the room all alone or should Saffa accompany her and most of all,how should we make her short stay a  memorable one?All the questions were lingering in our head.

The day came, Ummi brought her back home with her buddy - Yi Wei (Teacher Soo's son).Fortunately, she is a very friendly and warm girl, initiating a conversation with her was a breeze.So the first night, we went to buy a baju kurung ( a traditional Malay attire) for her and we played a round of bowling together.The second day, there was a programme in Kampung Lindungan Raja,Sedim.The exchange students from Korea,France and Italy were being taught on how to produce coffee beans and prepare traditional food such as peknga (a type of pancake).They were also shown the way to grate the coconut which is the first step to produce santan (coconut milk).In the evening, the students had an astronomy night session where they were given chance to look at they brightest star, Sirius through the telescope.Amazing!

The third day, Manuela went for a sightseeing in Alor Star with the other exchange students.We fetched her in the evening and brought her to Penang as it was the last night.So we had a stroll in Batu Ferringhi Night Market and had some family time together.


"Would you like this one?"
              


Family time over coffee and chit chats
Abah putting down his autograph on the card
Ummi writing a card for Manuela

On the last day, we sent Manuela to school and bid her farewell.It was a pleasure to host you,Manu.Manuela gave us some beautiful souvenirs from Italy, so thoughtful of her.Hoping that I can visit her in the future, insyaAllah.
Manuela gave us a postcard and that definitely made my day! ^^

       

Lovely Manuela!

From me, to her



I really admire the exchange students who travel across the globe to expand their intercultural knowledge.I can see how they engage with the people here, mingling with people and displaying an interest in learning new things.It takes a strong will to stretch out of your comfort zone and live in a new surrounding,also learning the culture and religion.You know what, I just realize that being an exchange student in Malaysia requires so much effort cause you need to prepare yourself in regards of the religious beliefs, culture,language and also food in this multicultural country.On the bright side, you can celebrate many festivals and enjoy the rich delicacies!Hey people, go and chase your dreams.No one is going to stop you, unless YOU LIMIT YOURSELF.

Hoping that you'll come to celebrate Hari Raya Aidilfitri with us, Manuela.

Take care always.

All the best in everything you do :)

           

AFS

AFS KL-YES INTERVIEW TIPS 2015

02:13
Assalammualaikum and Hye,

I've promised you guys that I will share the tips for AFS INTERVIEW,so I'm here! ;D
Before that, I want to clarify  that I am not selected to the second interview in KL.Hence,I know that you shouldn't do the same mistakes as I've done.

The interview that I attended was for KL-YES interview which is an exchange student program to USA with scholarship.Sounds good right?Participate in it if you are interested!

There are other interview such as AFS short-term program to Italy,Germany,Turkey and Japan too.
Do visit the afsmas.org for further information.

1.Know the culture of all races in Malaysia

This is compulsory!You must know the culture of Malay,Indian,Chinese,Iban,Kadazan,Orang Asli,Baba Nyonya and other indigenous tribes in Sabah and Sarawak.They will not ask you about all of it but apparently you need to know the festival that is celebrated by the races.Then,the foooood!Know it and eat it!Okay,jokes aside.You have to know the main dishes.Next,clothes-- the traditional attire that we usually wear during certain festival like cheongsam,baju kebaya,sam foo and a lot more stunning traditional clothes that you've never think of.

Cantik kan!We must treasure our culture.
             When you are doing research about your own country's culture,keep it in your mind as a general knowledge too.Not just for the sake of attending the interview.After all,we must be proud of our lovely Malaysia.I love my tanah tumpah darahku!


2.Practice traditional dances






You don't need to be a professional dancer in this case,but you HAVE to know at least three dances because if the interviewer ask you to perform zapin and you don't have any idea about it,at least you can show them that you can JOGET.Now they know,you are capable of something and you do know how to promote Malaysian traditional dancing to the world.We're a blend of various cultures and that's what makes Malaysia,Malaysia.Okay,so I want to make your work a little bit easier --Traditional dances that you should have a try (click it!)

3.Voice out your opinion

During the interview,there was a game and an 'ask-what-you-want' sessions and lastly a debate.Okay,you don't have to worry about this and find points to defeat the opposition as the debate is conducted in a relaxed and chill environment.But,I am not declaring that this is how the interview is going to be because there will be volunteers that will supervise and take charge of the interview so it is up to them what type of activities they will organise.Anyway,enjoy the activities as it will be super fun and make new friends.Whatever it is,try to express your opinion out loud and it is a +1 if you are the first person to answer or share your thoughts when any questions arise.The originality and your bravery is counted as bonus.
                                       
   

         What I am trying to deliver is,be brave and voice out!Be different.If you're thinking that the other person may have the same thoughts in his/her head then be the first to say it.You may have doubt that your idea is ridiculous but you also are portraying to others how to look at something from a different perspective.And tell you what,weird is the new smart.Hahaha

Okay, I want to share one of the mind boggling questions they asked during the group interview.I found this question as quite interesting and we really can know how the girls' reactions if they meet their significant one during the exchange program.

Q: What if you fall in love with someone during the exchange student program?
      Say that the person is your host brother or someone that live in your host country.

A(girl 1) : I need to tell my family first about this and if my father give the permission then it is okay.

Q            : Then if you ended the programme will you continue the relationship like a LDR?

A(girl 1 ): Yes,maybe.

Q: So,what about you?

A(me) :As for me I think I need to determine whether is that a true love or just a crush because we might just like someone and it's not love.I don't think it is wrong to fall in love but how you express your love will actually be the main subject.If you don't do anything that may give bad assumptions to people then it's okay.

There were five girls in my group but I don't remember all of their answers so I only can recall two of that.One from another girl and from me.

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Then the interviewers started telling us that there was an exchange student that fell in love,a real love not an infatuation towards someone that you just met,and they keep in touch with each other even after the program had ended.Considering that this love is a long distance relationship where the student must go back to his/her country once the exchange ended,then I think it really require a big commitment,right?Anyway,I've read about a story similar to this,and guess what they still contact each other and that someone special is the host brother.

You need to know your intention of going there in the first place which is to gain knowledge,learn new cultures and promote the culture of your beloved country and also extend your circle of friends.

You need to know that by joining this program you not only have to live in a new place,adapt to the environment and meet new people but most importantly you are the young ambassador of Malaysia.You are responsible to promote our culture there and portray good image of our country and our people.

And if you really want the KL-YES scholarship,then work for it!I knew that I need to practice the dance but I didn't and that's it.When the interviewer asked me to perform zapin ,I awkwardly moved my hands in circling motion.I have no idea how to do it,apart of joining dancing class in year 3 and was expelled (HAHAHA) because I cannot do some of the moves, I tried to do some movements that I barely remember.Then,when I search for the 'zapin dance' on youtube,the dance is nothing same to the ridiculous movements that I performed during the interview. T_T

4.Issues happening around the globe

This is to test your general knowledge and to see whether you care about the world or not.You need to read the newspapers and know the solutions to the problem.When we read,we don't just read,flip the pages and that's it.We need to think how to find the solutions, to make peace and nurture humanity in ourselves and in the world.Be someone that make changes!They did asked my friend about the ISIS,how are we going to explain the host family that Islam is not related to ISIS?Think about that.

5.How about halal food?

If someone offered you to drink wine or eat pork that is against your beliefs,how would you tell them politely that you cannot consume those thing? :) Based on my readings, some people said they would prefer to eat bread and fish or be a vegetarian there.But,I will try asking the alumni and maybe they could shed some light on this matter.

I hope that this entry could help you guys who are planning to apply for the AFS exchange student program.Whether you are accepted to the next interview is another thing,so enjoy the interview.I have gained amazing experience from the interview and it does open my eyes about the world I am going to explore in my journey as a young adult.Pray for me and wish me well!

Terima kasih. :D

I am sharing my experience for the benefit of others :)